[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.abakowiki.cz\/ze-zivota-samozivitelu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.abakowiki.cz\/ze-zivota-samozivitelu\/","headline":"Ze \u017eivota samo\u017eivitel\u016f","name":"Ze \u017eivota samo\u017eivitel\u016f","description":"V sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b se zhruba ka\u017ed\u00e9 druh\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed rozpad\u00e1. Nebudeme se zde pou\u0161t\u011bt do sociologick\u00fdch v\u00fdzkum\u016f, pro\u010d k tomu doch\u00e1z\u00ed, proto\u017ee to rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed p\u0159edm\u011btem na\u0161eho t\u00e9matu. D\u016fsledek rozvodovosti je ten, \u017ee d\u011bti jsou vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ny jen jedn\u00edm z rodi\u010d\u016f. Obvykle je to matka, ale otec samo\u017eivitel v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b rozhodn\u011b","datePublished":"2016-11-12","dateModified":"2023-05-31","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.abakowiki.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.abakowiki.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/8eaf08ef5a7e54fc91db02b2058b03bc913caaaa39c046819bbf43d06bd23c2b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/8eaf08ef5a7e54fc91db02b2058b03bc913caaaa39c046819bbf43d06bd23c2b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"abakowiki.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.abakowiki.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a278630_w3867_t1602478008.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.abakowiki.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a278630_w3867_t1602478008.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.abakowiki.cz\/ze-zivota-samozivitelu\/","about":["Spole\u010dnost"],"wordCount":585,"articleBody":"\tV sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b se zhruba ka\u017ed\u00e9 druh\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed rozpad\u00e1. Nebudeme se zde pou\u0161t\u011bt do sociologick\u00fdch v\u00fdzkum\u016f, pro\u010d k tomu doch\u00e1z\u00ed, proto\u017ee to rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed p\u0159edm\u011btem na\u0161eho t\u00e9matu.\t\tD\u016fsledek rozvodovosti je ten, \u017ee d\u011bti jsou vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ny jen jedn\u00edm z rodi\u010d\u016f. Obvykle je to matka, ale otec samo\u017eivitel v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b rozhodn\u011b nep\u0159edstavuje v\u00fdjimku. U n\u011bkter\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed se jedn\u00e1 o provizorium do doby, ne\u017e si rodi\u010d samo\u017eivitel najde nov\u00e9ho partnera a zalo\u017e\u00ed s n\u00edm novou rodinu, ale pro pom\u011brn\u011b mnoho ne\u00fapln\u00fdch rodin se jedn\u00e1 o dlouhodob\u00fd stav, proto\u017ee rodi\u010d samo\u017eivitel nov\u00e9ho partnera bu\u010f nehled\u00e1, nebo se mu to neda\u0159\u00ed, nebo preferuje jin\u00fd typ milostn\u00e9ho vztahu, kter\u00fd je nap\u0159\u00edklad zalo\u017een\u00fd jen na intimn\u00edm ob\u010dasn\u00e9m setk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed.\t \tV odborn\u00e9 literatu\u0159e dodnes b\u00fdv\u00e1 zmi\u0148ov\u00e1no, \u017ee \u017eivot v ne\u00fapln\u00e9 rodin\u011b p\u0159edstavuje rizikov\u00fd faktor. Dodnes mnoho lid\u00ed p\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b z ne\u00fapln\u00e9 rodiny bude\t·Nevychovan\u00e9, proto\u017ee na n\u011bho rodi\u010d nem\u00e1 \u010das\t·Ne\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9 ve \u0161kole, proto\u017ee mu chyb\u00ed dohled\t·Neupraven\u00e9 a zanedban\u00e9, proto\u017ee poch\u00e1z\u00ed ze soci\u00e1ln\u011b slab\u0161\u00edch podm\u00ednek\t·M\u00edt probl\u00e9my s chov\u00e1n\u00edm, proto\u017ee mu chyb\u00ed pozitivn\u00ed vzory a mu\u017esk\u00e1 autorita\t \tSkute\u010dnost nen\u00ed tak dramatick\u00e1P\u0159itom u\u017e renomovan\u00fd a slavn\u00fd d\u011btsk\u00fd psycholog Zden\u011bk Mat\u011bj\u010dek psal, \u017ee skute\u010dnost, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b je vychov\u00e1v\u00e1no v ne\u00fapln\u00e9 rodin\u011b neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee nedosp\u011bje ve zdravouplnohodnotnou osobnost a \u017ee by a priori hrozila emo\u010dn\u00ed frustrace. Jen je t\u0159eba v\u00fdchov\u011b v\u011bnovat zv\u00fd\u0161enou p\u00e9\u010di.Pravda je takov\u00e1, \u017ee rodi\u010de samo\u017eivitel\u00e9 to maj\u00ed nepochybn\u011b n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, na rozd\u00edl od rodi\u010d\u016f z \u00fapln\u00e9 rodiny,rozli\u0161ovat mezi t\u00edm, co je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 a co naopak tak velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nen\u00ed a dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed volit velmi efektivn\u00ed strategie co se t\u00fd\u010de p\u00e9\u010de o dom\u00e1cnost a finance a tak\u00e9 co se t\u00fd\u010de v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed. Ve skute\u010dnosti d\u011bti z ne\u00fapln\u00fdch rodin, pokud se jim rodi\u010d skute\u010dn\u011b v\u011bnuje jsou \u010dasto:·Mnohem samostatn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, proto\u017ee nejsou p\u0159epe\u010dov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00e9·Jsou cti\u017e\u00e1dostiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, proto\u017ee znaj\u00ed cenu sna\u017een\u00ed·Jsou p\u0159ipraven\u011bj\u0161\u00ed na \u017eivot z hlediska financ\u00ed, proto\u017ee jsou zvykl\u00e9 na \u017eivot v rodin\u011b, kde se zbyte\u010dn\u011b nepl\u00fdtv\u00e1·Jsou pracovit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, proto\u017ee se mus\u00ed pod\u00edlet na chodu dom\u00e1cnosti·Jsou vd\u011b\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, proto\u017ee si V\u00e1\u017e\u00ed toho, co maj\u00ed k dispozici Stejn\u011b tak neplat\u00ed, \u017ee samo\u017eivitel\u00e9 poch\u00e1zej\u00ed ze soci\u00e1ln\u011b znev\u00fdhodn\u011bn\u00fdch pom\u011br\u016f. Jsou to lid\u00e9 \u010dasto \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00ed ve sv\u00e9m povol\u00e1n\u00ed a z t\u00e9to pozice jsou rozhodn\u011b sv\u00fdm d\u011btem v\u00fdznamn\u00fdm vzorem toho, co v\u0161e se d\u00e1 zvl\u00e1dnout.Rozhodn\u011b tedy nen\u00ed d\u016fvodvn\u00edmat d\u011bti samo\u017eivitel\u016f jako n\u011bjakou ohro\u017eenou skupinu, kter\u00e1 je vystavena zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00fdm rizik\u016fm. Vystaveno rizik\u016fm je d\u00edt\u011b, jeho\u017e rodi\u010d nebo rodi\u010de tak docela nezvl\u00e1daj\u00ed v\u00fdchovu a to se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t jak v \u00fapln\u00e9 tak v ne\u00fapln\u00e9 rodin\u011b.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.8\/5 - (13 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ze \u017eivota samo\u017eivitel\u016f","item":"https:\/\/www.abakowiki.cz\/ze-zivota-samozivitelu\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]